ABOUT
Who is Kaylan?
She is a somatic therapist and coach who supports people to reclaim their sensuality, express their truth, and live with embodied joy and creative freedom.
Who is Cairo?
He is an evidence-based therapist, coach, mediator and educator who helps people live from their values, love with courage, and lead with clarity and purpose.
WHAT IS
SELF CRAFT?
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We created Self Craft to offer people access to the tools, education, and experiences that we believe are every humanâs birthright.
It all begins with knowing who we truly areâboth as magnificent, unique creators and as infinitely connected, interdependent beings.
This is the heart of our work: supporting the little âsâ self and the big âSâ Self; bridging the individual and the relational; weaving together the spiritual and the practical, the personal and the professional.
All in service of the greatest masterpiece youâll ever create: your life.
This is the essence of Self Craft.


OUR STORYÂ
We met nearly two decades ago in northern Thailandâtwo kindred spirits drawn together by a shared pull toward wisdom, spirit, and the power of creative self-expression. What began as chemistry evolved into deep partnership and a path of synergistic purpose.
Through marriage, co-parenting, decades of courageous communication, community building, and open relationship, weâve grown alongside one anotherâstudying, practicing, unlearning, and becoming. Our relationship has been both a home and a crucible, shaping the heart of the work we now offer.
Self Craft was born not just from what weâve learned, but from what weâve lived. Cairo brings a rich foundation in therapy, coaching, communication, and education. Kaylan brings deep gifts in embodiment, the healing arts, and creative self-expression. Together, we weave soul and strategy, love and leadership, into experiences that are both practical and transformational.
We are the Rhaâsâlovers, parents, facilitators, and fellow humans walking with those ready to live, love, and lead from truth.
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A LITTLE MORE ABOUT EACH OF US
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I'm Cairo...
Iâm a joyful creator, father, lover, thought leader, & facilitator of transformation. My work is an extension of the life I live.
Iâve been happily married for nearly two decades & am also in a committed second partnershipâboth my beloveds are extraordinary therapists. I also have twin girls who are my pride and joy.
For over two decades, I have been working at the intersection of therapy, communication, business, & education. I'm a creator of innovative frameworks & approaches that bridge empirically backed work with time-tested wisdom & my own lived experience.
Over time I've helped bring love back to relationships on the brink of collapse, supported entrepreneurs to scale from struggle street to massive success, & built organizational cultures of integrity & excellence. I grew my own team from me & my wife to over twenty facilitators, have been on the board of multiple enterprises & schools, presented at international conferences, &, all the while, been committed to the inner work & truly showing up for the people in my life that matter most.Â
I've lived in Thailand for almost a decade, have been a highly successful nomadic entrepreneur, & am a committed cross-cultural community builder. My calling is to inspire compassion, creativity and conscious communication so that we can bring our best to ourselves, one another and the Earth. I would be honored to explore whatever is calling you.
BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL WITH CAIROI'm Kaylan...
Iâm a lover of beauty, a space-holder for truth, a creative soul, and a guide for those ready to return to the wisdom of their own bodies. Iâm a coach, therapist, facilitator, mother, and artist of inner aliveness.
Iâve spent over twenty years walking the path of healingâmy own and othersâ. My work is rooted in somatic therapy, creative expression, and the deep art of listening to what lives beneath the surface. Iâve trained in body-based coaching, relational intelligence, movement and embodiment practices, and the healing artsâand I bring a grounded, joyful presence into every space I hold.
I help people come home to themselves. Whether Iâm working with individuals, couples, or groups, my intention is to create the kind of space where shame softens, expression opens, and joy becomes not just possible, but natural again. I love supporting women and men to reclaim their voice, reconnect with their sensuality, and embody the full range of who they areâfrom tenderness to fire, grief to ecstasy.
Iâm especially passionate about helping people who have been silenced or disconnectedâby trauma, by culture, by lifeâto find their way back to their bodies, their desire, and their freedom. I work with those navigating transitions, craving deeper intimacy, or wanting to feel more fully expressed in their lives, their love, and their leadership.
Iâve led retreats and workshops around the world, facilitated group processes in sacred and playful spaces, and helped hundreds of people rediscover their radiance. My approach blends structure and spontaneity, deep listening and fierce permission, gentle safety and wild possibility.
Iâve been in partnership with Cairo for nearly twenty years, and weâre raising two incredible daughters together. Weâve grown a business, opened our marriage, and continued to choose each other through every iteration of who weâve become. My personal journeyâthrough healing, motherhood, love, and liberationâcontinues to shape the work I do with others.
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